After Jeffry and I got married, I overheard him tell a friend that I was "shy, sweet, innocent, and submissive," and maybe that's true; at least the submissive part. Although I am very shy, I love sex.

I had been born and raised in Iowa, and I was just 19 when I got married. So I wasn't very sophisticated or experienced. But I was in love with Jeffrey. And because he had just earned his JD degree, we got married and moved to California where he took a job clerking at a highly prestigious law firm.